I just posted embedded videos at http://highdesertfood.org/forum/our-plants/rosemary/
When I went to edit it I got the 403. When I first posted I initially got an error from Wordfence, but on second try it went through (added an exception, I think).
Then I turned off all plugins except Akismet and SP, but no go, 403 every time now. I suspect it has to do with the iframe since I can edit other posts.
Used Firefox and also tried it in Chrome, no go.