as to first, not sure how one would do that… there is not timestamp on the display name… wp does not record that kind of info either or any history on the changing of the display name…
also, what triggered the names changes? user 2 changing his display name will not affect user 1 display name… it doesnt happen… but if you updated the settings in the admin panel such that we had to cycle through all the users and update, then its a crap shoot (think its by user id) which one occurs first… again, wp does not record any name change history or timestamp the change…
I dont know why you cannot change the admin name display… if you change the other user to something else, then the original one will be available again… if you have made name changing disabled, then yeah, but you could turn it back on for fleeting second and do it… In the next SP 5.3 version, we have made it such that admins can still change display names when changing is disabled – its their forum…
the stats at the bottom are cached… so name changes take your stats update time to change… or are you just saying the stats name display format does not follow the setting vice the actual data changing? if latter, would have to check and see if we even look at that for stats…