Ok I got her removed. I also have a lot of "blanks" in there, and and removing them. It seems I have to do it one at a time. I'm the one who had the phantom members. Maybe it was something related to that as well.
Another odd thing I found when I went to edit the membership the link is showing the location as an actual sever location.
It shouldn't be doing that should it?
Now that I'm thinking about all of this, there was an issue with the database it had something to do with bluehost transfering the database to a new account and different server. I'm wondering if all of this is from that. I know it broke the database and they had to roll it back.