Ok I got her removed. I also have a lot of "blanks" in there, and and removing them. It seems I have to do it one at a time. I'm the one who had the phantom members. Maybe it was something related to that as well.
Another odd thing I found when I went to edit the membership the link is showing the location as an actual sever location.
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It shouldn't be doing that should it?
Now that I'm thinking about all of this, there was an issue with the database it had something to do with bluehost transfering the database to a new account and different server. I'm wondering if all of this is from that. I know it broke the database and they had to roll it back.