OK… when I log in to the site, load a topic and click on the tools button I would expect a small popup menu to appear. What I do NOT expect is to see (roughly – they were hard to count) is 37 http ajax calls from what looks to be a combination of WP theme and plugins before the whole thing errors out…!
And some of the responses among those 37 ajax calls are returning quite large amounts of html and, in some cases, more javascript…
I think the first task is to find out what is responsible for this vast amount of unusual and resource hungry activity. Note that some of the processes are also using deprecated jQuery functionality which is not good. And somewhere, along the way of these calls, I think you will find that the jQuery UI scripts are ceasing to function.
So can we start there please? First task always – identify the area of conflict!