Thanks but I am still lost. I contacted my host Hostgator and they said there must be something wrong with the plugin as they think the details I entered look correct.
I made a new email account using a forum slug. I went to the cpanel manual details for that account. I entered them in the post by email Options/Email settings. And all the variations I have tried get the rather unhelpful message saying ‘Not all the required Post by Email settings found’.
I have checked the codex which is no more helpful than the popup help in admin, and I believe this help is unclear and possibly incomplete.
Here is a screenshot of the cpanel info http://screencast.com/t/y9Tcu9Sx and here are my settings with password blurred out http://screencast.com/t/wj1uH3Zx
As well as the name of the mailserver setting and the port number I am a little confused by the right hand column Email Address Settings options: The Senders Name: presumably this is me? The email from name: presumably this is either me or my website? The email domain name: presumably this is my sites domain name? A default example of what is expected in each field would help immensely!
Whether Im missing something obvious or there is some other problem here I really dont know … Please help. I can provide login details if requested and in fact I think you may still have them from a previous problem.